About
Joan Esther Broadaway Newberry
Born in 1884 in Center Ridge, Arkansas, Joan Esther Broadaway,
known as Esther, was the thirteenth and last child of Reverend
James Knox Broadaway, Jr., and Rebecca Ann Holmes. These two
pioneering families had migrated from Wayne County, Tennessee,
to Conway County, Arkansas, in the late 1840s.
When
Esther's parents married in Dover in 1859, her father was
eighteen years old and her mother was seventeen. The American
agrarian dream for men like James required large families
in order to operate and sustain enterprises of farming and
logging. James later became an ordained Baptist minister,
but this avocation probably was unprofitable except for the
religious experience and the occasional gifts of food.
Despite
their hardships, James and Rebecca seem to have had a healthy
and vigorous life together. Both died in 1916, after a marriage
of fifty-seven years. Rebecca had done her part by producing
the "Baker's Dozen" of children, almost one every
other year until Esther was born in 1884, when Rebecca was
forty-two.
Esther
Newberry's life was very different from her mother's pioneer
womanhood. After having studied music at Arkansas Baptist
College in Conway, she was married in 1904 at the age of twenty
to Maxel Hardy Newberry, also from Center Ridge. Esther did
not emulate her mother's childbearing achievements. Her first
child, Jarrel, was not born until she was thirty-three years
old. A daughter, Rebecca, was born seven years later near
Esther's fortieth birthday.
Esther
worked outside the home with her husband. One venture was
a traveling-tent photography studio in the Conway County area.
She later worked with Max as he tried other prospects ranging
from row crops to livestock to operating a service station
and cafe. Esther and Max left Center Ridge in 1914, around
the time of her parents' deaths, and lived in Prairie County,
Arkansas, until migrating to California in 1944. They settled
in San Pedro, where their son and daughter lived, and where
Esther, at age sixty-one, died suddenly from a pancreatic
infection. She was buried in Gardena, California.
About
Joan Esther Broadaway Newberry Speech
Joan
Esther Broadaway's notes for a church debate on the question
of which sex was the superior leave the impression that she
was a young, unmarried woman, until her closing remarks. They
reveal also her gentle humor and lively personality that her
son, Jarrel Newberry, describes in his genealogical research
on the Broadaway and Newberry families.
Handwritten Speech Notes
Transcript
of Speech Notes
Note: Esther Newberry wrote and presented these remarks for
a church gathering where the debate topic was the superiority
of man or woman. The exact date is unknown.
My antiquated hearers, male & female. Squachin
my native modesty, which is natural to the weaker vessels
of whom I am, whitch I feel impelled to speak of woman, a
subject being I am a woman I have given much attention to.
Man
my hearers, claims to be the superior of woman, is it so and
if so in what and how much?
Was
he the first creation. He was, my hearers, but what does that
prove? The experience gained in making man was applied to
the making of a better and more finer being of whom I am a
sample.
God
made man, but saw in a brief space that he couldn't take care
of himself, so that was why we was created. Tho' seein' all
the trouble we have I don't doubt it would have been money
in our pockets if we hadn't been made at all.
Imagine
my beloved hearers, Adam before Eve was created. Who did his
washing! Who cooked his beefstake in the morning? He was miserable
he was. He must have boarded out and eat hash, but when eve
came, the scene changed. She had his slippers and dessing
gown ready after tea he smoked his pipe in peace, but men,
cruel, hard-hearted men, will assert Eve was the cause of
his expulsion from Eden. That she plucked the apple and gave
him half of it.
Oh,
my sisters it's true, too true, but what of it. It proves
firstly her goodness. Had Adam plucked the apple, if it had
been a good one he would have gobbled it all down himself
and perhaps taken her the core. But Eve, angel that we all
are, thought of him and went halvers with him. Secondly, it
was the means of a good anyway. It seperated them while they
still had love for each other. Now I appeal to the stearner
sex present tonight. Suppose all of you had been so fortunate
as to win such a virgin soul as me, could you indure such
charms as mine forever. Oh, I am sure if I had a husband he
would bless Eve for introducing death in the world.
Matrimony
thus far has been our only destiny. I am glad I have had strength
of mind to resist all propositions leading to my enslavery.
Once, indeed, I might have done so but the nearest accident
in the world saved me. Once in my younger days when the blossoms
was on the peach ear sleepless nights are the wrongs of my
sex had worn furrows in these once blushing cheeks, a young
man came to our house and conversed sweetly with me. He was
my first beau and, O my sisters, had he that night asked me
to of been hisn I should of been weak enough to have said
yes. And been the mender of stockins and a washer of dishes
for life, but fate saved me. He didn't ask me.
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